How I went from every day food court guru to weekend batch cooker.
Mm… Food. There’s nothing that makes me happier than eating a delicious meal that makes my taste buds happy, my stomach feel satisfied, and my energy levels feel replenished.
My favourite meal of the day: Lunch. Trust me, I got nothing against breakfast, brunch, dinner, or dessert. It’s just the timing of lunch is so perfect. It’s really the only meal you can look forward to consistently every single day of the week. Breakfast you’re probably super groggy when you make it, dinner you just want to get over with at the end of the long day, and dessert is fun, but just an indulgence.
But lunch. It’s the one that signals: “BREAK!” It’s the perfect excuse to go for a walk, sit in the sunshine, and recharge the brain and body. Plus, it’s also one of the few meals you might be able to cheat in your favourite fast food meal without anyone else really knowing.
And that was day 1. She had resided to spending over $500 for the weekend so she could be a good friend.
Now her friends are nice people. I’ve met them, even went to school and worked closely with one of them, but their desire to give their soon-to-be-married gal pal an experience of a lifetime cost a lot. Maybe not to everyone, but to at least a few people in the group.
So let’s talk about that today with a term I like to call “financial consideracy”, which I define as being considerate to other people’s finances in the spirit of inclusivity (and yes, I know it’s a made up term).
The thing is: those things may appear bizarre to us, but it’s not bizarre to them. It’s a conscious choice they’ve made to become their best frugal selves. And for the record: we are all guilty of bizarre habits. Some people are crazy about folding clothing a certain way, or keeping their book collection meticulously alphabetized (in my youth, I also used to organize all my VHS tapes by production company. Suffice to say, no one could ever find anything but me) – and there’s honestly nothing wrong with that.
So really: we’re all a little weird. And that’s okay. I also do weird things, specifically around saving money and I welcome you to judge me because really, our oddities is what makes each of us special.