And there is something about drugs in here, I promise.
Frugal folk are all about quality. That means buying things of excellent quality and workmanship because they know it’ll last longer or taste better than the cheap stuff. It’s simply a matter of ROI – why buy something for $1 that might break any minute when you could spend $10 and keep it for life?
However, we all have our vices when it comes to cheaping out on things. And personally: I cheap out on quite a few…
And that was day 1. She had resided to spending over $500 for the weekend so she could be a good friend.
Now her friends are nice people. I’ve met them, even went to school and worked closely with one of them, but their desire to give their soon-to-be-married gal pal an experience of a lifetime cost a lot. Maybe not to everyone, but to at least a few people in the group.
So let’s talk about that today with a term I like to call “financial consideracy”, which I define as being considerate to other people’s finances in the spirit of inclusivity (and yes, I know it’s a made up term).
The thing is: those things may appear bizarre to us, but it’s not bizarre to them. It’s a conscious choice they’ve made to become their best frugal selves. And for the record: we are all guilty of bizarre habits. Some people are crazy about folding clothing a certain way, or keeping their book collection meticulously alphabetized (in my youth, I also used to organize all my VHS tapes by production company. Suffice to say, no one could ever find anything but me) – and there’s honestly nothing wrong with that.
So really: we’re all a little weird. And that’s okay. I also do weird things, specifically around saving money and I welcome you to judge me because really, our oddities is what makes each of us special.
Let’s be real: lots of things are out of reach overnight. In all likelihood, you won’t wake up a millionaire. Your dream home won’t magically appear before your eyes. And that amazing job until retirement will likely elude you for many years. In fact, very few of us get what we want and when it comes too easy, we don’t truly appreciate it.
Things take time. The morning you wake up a millionaire, chances are that moment has been building and building for quite some time through diligence, frugality, and smart investing. And also a little bit of opportunism.